I wrote the first book and ran the first website ever dedicated to pathological narcissism, and coined
most of the vocabulary now used to discuss it. My work is cited in over 4,000 scholarly publications
and 3,000+ books.
The first
History of “Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited”
In April 1997 I uploaded the free Internet edition of my book Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited,
written in 1995. It is still available at narcissistic-abuse.com.
It was the first website ever about narcissism. The response was an outpouring of anguish and
relief from both narcissists and victims of abuse, who could finally put a label on their suffering. The first
print edition followed in 1999.
At the time, with the exception of a handful of scholars, no one had even heard of pathological narcissism.
I had to coin a whole new vocabulary — somatic and cerebral narcissist, narcissistic abuse,
no contact, devalued and discarded, cold empathy, hoovering,
flying monkeys — and reanimate moribund terms (Narcissistic Supply, gaslighting,
False Self) with new meaning. 27 years later, narcissism is a cultural meme and a leading topic of academic study.
I was also the first to introduce pathological narcissism into political analysis — see my
July 2008 essay suggesting Obama may be a narcissist.
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To reiterate — firsts, scope, and disclaimers
My NPD website and forums were the first ever on the Internet.
I popularised narcissistic abuse (a term I coined in 1987) online and in print. I established and
moderated the first online support groups for victims and survivors in 1999. My books are based on the latest
research and on scholarly works by leading experts on personality disorders; many chapters contain detailed
bibliographies. My online mailing lists alone include over 40,000 members, of which
15,000 are therapists, social workers, psychiatrists, and psychologists.
I have been diagnosed with the disorder (twice) and spent time in therapy and almost a decade discussing it
in depth — mainly by correspondence — with mental-health professionals worldwide.
I never claimed to be a mental-health practitioner or to be licensed to administer therapy.
The disclaimer on my site is unequivocal and prominently displayed,
dating back to 2005;
a shorter disclaimer has appeared on my front pages ever since 1997
(archive,
mirror).
The front page of “Malignant Self-love” has always stated clearly that I am
not a mental-health practitioner
(2007 edition,
2013 edition,
excerpts in Project Gutenberg).
I am, however, certified by Brainbench in Counselling Techniques (with
a very high mark).
Brainbench
was an online certification agency whose tests were difficult and time-limited, and whose clients included
numerous Fortune-500 corporations, U.S. government agencies, and universities;
it was ISO 9001:2000 certified.
Editorial & conference roles
Editor or Editor-in-Chief of peer-reviewed and open-access journals; member of the organising committees of 150 international conferences (media kit).
Citations
Cited in scholarly publications
My work is quoted in more than 4,000 scholarly publications and in over 3,000 books — including the
American Journal of Psychiatry,
Personality and Individual Differences,
Psychology Today,
American Journal of Family Therapy,
Journal of Film and Video,
Biomedical Ethics for Engineers,
Philosophy, Psychiatry & Psychology,
Journal of Counseling and Development,
AI and Society,
International Journal of Law and Psychiatry,
Aggression and Violent Behavior,
Journal of Religion and Health,
Studies in Philosophy and Education,
Psychiatry, Psychology and Law,
and dozens of dissertations and theses —
plus many more journals listed in my media kit.
Google Scholar
My Scholar page
Amazon: books citing me
Google Books: 3,000+
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ORCID
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Academia.edu
Google Scholar
CORE
Emerald
Library of Congress
EBSCO
JStor
In the press
CNN,
Forbes,
Financial Times,
Sunday Times,
New York Times,
New York Post,
Washington Post,
USA Today,
UPI,
The Guardian,
The Australian,
The Telegraph,
New Statesman,
New York Magazine,
BBC World Service,
Deutschlandfunk,
Al-Jazeera,
Vice,
Cosmopolitan,
Marie Claire,
Dr. Drew,
IAI.tv,
MEL Magazine,
Atlantico,
Daily Mail,
and many more.
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Testimonials
What the media say
“Few people can claim to have increased the public awareness of NPD to such a degree.” — Adrian Tampany, Financial Times Weekend Magazine, 4–5 September 2010
“Malignant Self-love (is a) … magnum opus.” — Yvonne Roberts, Sunday Times, 16 September 2007
“Sam Vaknin is the world’s leading expert on narcissism.” — Tim Hall, New York Press, 12 February 2003
“Vaknin’s a respected expert on malignant narcissists … He set about to know everything there is about the psychopathic narcissist.” — Ian Walker, ABC Radio National Background Briefing, 18 July 2004
What mental-health professionals & authors say
“Among many books published on the topic of pathological narcissism, this is by far the best. It is highly recommended not only for the general public but also for professional therapists.” — Akira Otani, Ed.D., ABPH, University of Maryland
“The book penetrates deeply into the narcissist’s mind and is filled with myriad gripping novel insights. It gives the reader a great insight into the fears, desires, defenses, and motives of the narcissist, as well as those in relationship with the narcissist.” — Alison Poulsen, Ph.D.
“Sam is doing great work on pathological narcissism. His book ‘Malignant Self-love’ is our first guideline in handling malignant types of patients in the forensic setting.” — Dr. Sanja Radeljak, MD, PhD, psychiatrist and forensic expert, Neuropsychiatric Hospital “Dr. Ivan Barbot”, Popovaca, Croatia
“Brilliant, insightful, extremely relevant — not only clinically but practically, on a day-to-day basis. This work can be immediately applied and be of assistance to our society at large.” — Dr. Cyndie Spanier, Ph.D., Deputy Director, Pittsburgh Behavioral Medicine, LLC
“Sam is a genius — his work most inspiring not only to myself but to my colleagues as well.” — Joan Jutta Lachkar, Ph.D., Affiliate Member of the New Center for Psychoanalysis; author of How to Talk to a Narcissist, How to Talk to a Borderline, Narcissistic / Borderline Couples
“Sam Vaknin’s book is THE bible on narcissism!” — Mary Jo Fay, author of When Your Perfect Partner Goes Perfectly Wrong
“I consider this book to be the compass for Narcissistic Personality Disorder education.” — Jen Emmerich, LMSW, ACSW
“There is no more important work than this one on the subject … You may very well discover yourself.” — Heyward Bruce Ewart, III, Ph.D., author of Am I Bad
“Read Malignant Self-love so you will understand that you are NOT crazy — you are just embedded in a crazy-making relationship.” — Liane J. Leedom, M.D., author of Just Like His Father?
“Vaknin’s depth and breadth are unmatched anywhere else and by anyone else. He knows everything there is to know about narcissistic and psychopathic abusers and how to cope with them effectively.” — Yomtov Barak, family therapist
“I was stimulated just as I was challenged and enlightened.” — Robert L. Mueller, author of Bullying Bosses
“The only source of such vast, serious, elaborated and thorough first-hand information about narcissism available. Useful for victims as well as therapists.” — Dr. Nili Raam, author
“Provides the partners, family and friends of NPD sufferers, and the sufferers themselves, with deep insight into the numerous expressions of this devastating and often insidious disorder.” — Esther Veltheim, author of Beyond Concepts
“One powerful healing tool in our therapy with these people is Dr. Vaknin’s book. The most accurate portrayal of the ‘typical’ cult leader we have ever seen.” — Robert Pardon, Director of MeadowHaven
“A must-read for psychologists, social workers, and all individuals who want to learn how to deal with the narcissists in their lives.” — Laurie Anthony, teacher and author
“Required reading for any codependent — to understand how the other side works.” — Dr. Irene, psychologist and webmistress of drirene.com
“If you wish to get under the skin of a narcissist, if you wish to get to know how he thinks and feels and why he behaves as he does, then this is the book for you.” — Dr. Anthony Benis, Mount Sinai Hospital, New York; author of Towards Self and Sanity
“Sam Vaknin is a leading authority on the topic of narcissism.” — Lisa Angelettie, MSW, former editor of BellaOnline’s Mental Health
“I cannot recommend this book enough to those of you who have this disorder, to families and friends who are trying to understand.” — Patty Pheil, MSW, Mental Health Today
“(T)his book is a must-read and will give you insight into the emotionally destructive people in your workplace, your family and among your friends. Sam Vaknin clears up the questions, confusion, and effects of dealing with narcissists; the book is well written, informative, and therapeutic.” — Carolyn Reilly, MSW, San Jose, Costa Rica
“This book has an important purpose. I am sure it will be appreciated in a library, classroom or among the mental health profession.” — Katherine Theriault, Inscriptions Magazine, Vol. 2, Issue 20
“Now, for the first time, a much-needed first-hand account of what Narcissistic Personality Disorder is like. Offers insight and clarity.” — Howard Brown, 4Therapy
“Sam Vaknin’s study of narcissism is truly insightful. The author has done probably more than anyone else to educate others to this poorly understood condition. In this, his twelfth book, he shares his considerable knowledge and experience of narcissism in a comprehensive yet easy-to-read style.” — The late Tim Field, Bully Online
“Sam has plugged all the loopholes, exposed all the plots, and introduced a new language to confront the narcissist. A ‘hands-on’ tool that can immediately bring relief. If you want to breathe again, if you are at your wits’ end, if everything has been tried and failed, if you NEED a change, then Malignant Self-love can give you your life back. This book is a lifesaver!” — Kathy Stringer, ToddlerTime
UMI / Library of Congress correspondence regarding the dissertation
Original correspondence (1997, 2007) establishing that “Time Asymmetry Re-Visited” is held by UMI and the Library of Congress.
----- Original Message -----
From: "Dawn Perri"
Sent: Sunday, November 23, 1997 1:01 AM
Here is the reply I received with respect to your dissertation.
From: "Connell, Bonnie" <[email protected]>
Subject: RE: Vaknin
Date: Thu, 20 Nov 1997 15:08:21 -0500
From: Dawn Perri
To: Webmaster
Subject: Vaknin
I am looking for a dissertation that was registered with your service
in the early 1980s. The author is Sam Vaknin, and the title of the
dissertation is "Time Asymmetry Re-Visited". I did not have any luck
finding it with your search engine. I am reasonably sure that it is
registered with your service, as the author himself has directed me
here for a copy.
Thank you for your time,
Dawn Perri
Thank you for your recent inquiry. The dissertation you requested is
available from UMI. Copies can also be ordered over the Internet at
http://wwwlib.umi.com/dxweb/gateway.
Pricing: Catalog #LD00714
Academic (students / faculty):
Paper softcover $36.00 · Paper hardcover $43.50 · Film/Fiche $32.50
Non-academic:
Paper softcover $57.50 · Paper hardcover $69.50 · Film/Fiche $46.00
----- Original Message -----
From: Michael Hart <[email protected]>
Sent: Sunday, May 06, 2007 9:05 AM
Subject: [BP] Sam Vaknin’s PhD Thesis
A bit of factual evidence on Sam Vaknin’s doctorate that, perhaps,
takes us a little more out of the subjective realm:
While I am certainly no authority on "diploma mills" and the like,
I have never heard of one that would have required or accepted a
225-page doctoral thesis. Even more surprising would be acceptance
of such a thesis by University Microfilms International of Ann Arbor,
Michigan — pretty much the world thesis authority — and then by the
Library of Congress, whose entry follows:
Time asymmetry re-visited by Sam Vaknin.
LC Control Number: 85133690
Type of Material: Book (Print, Microform, Electronic, etc.)
Personal Name: Vaknin, Sam.
Main Title: Time asymmetry re-visited [microform] / by Sam Vaknin.
Published/Created: 1982, c1984.
Description: [225] leaves.
Notes: Thesis (Ph.D.) — Pacific Western University, 1982.
Microfilm. Ann Arbor, MI: University Microfilms
International, 1984. 1 microfilm reel; 35 mm.
LC Classification: Microfilm 85/871 (Q)
LCCN 85133690
Library of Congress catalogue
Diploma scan
LoC ZIP