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"Vaknin’s a respected expert on
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psychopathic narcissist."
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What Mental Health Professionals and Authors have to
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“Bringing to light new developments in narcissistic personality
disorders, Vaknin’s pioneering and original work Malignant Self-Love Narcissism
Revisited meticulously addresses the ever-changing states, traits, and
characteristics of this disorder. His theoretical comparative study of how
different theorists defines and describes narcissism is most inspiring and has
been a major source for my own work. This is truly a masterpiece! I
highly recommend this book not only essential for mental health professionals
treating them but for all those who live, love and work with them.”
(Joan Jutta Lachkar, Ph.D., Author of Narcissistic/Borderline
Couples, Affiliate Member for the New Center for Psychoanalysis)
“Among many books published on
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It is highly recommended not only
for the general public but also for professional therapists.”
(Akira Otani, Ed.D.,ABPH, University of
Maryland)
“Seminal book on
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personality disorder in ways that most readers, experientially, can easily
relate to.”
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“Sam is a genius his work most inspiring
not only to myself but to my colleagues as well.”
(Joan Jutta Lachkar, Ph.D., Affiliate
Member of the New Center for Psychoanalysis and
Author of: How to Talk to a Narcissist; How
to Talk to a Borderline; Narcissistic/Borderline Couples)
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Character")
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understand."
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Sam Vaknin clears up the questions, confusion, and
effects of dealing with narcissists: the book is well written, informative, and
therapeutic. “
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unique insight into NPD that is provided there.
A truly excellent and thorough piece
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of Narcissistic Personality Disorder.”
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"Now, for the first time, a much-needed
first hand account of what Narcissistic Personality Disorder
is like. Offers insight and clarity."
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“Sam Vaknin's study of narcissism is truly
insightful. The author has done probably more than anyone else to educate
others to this poorly understood condition.
In this, his twelfth book, he shares his
considerable knowledge and experience of narcissism in a comprehensive yet easy
to read style.”
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